HOMOSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP: INTO LOVE OR INTO LUST




We came into very decent primary and secondary education as well as high standard of teaching. We’ve been through into good manners and right conduct as well as Christian living and other religion subjects. Our parents guided us and show the right way and even making us realized in every fault we did. We are in democratic nation, everyone has its rights to live, react, and protect whatever stuffs you have. We belong also to the most religious country, we do have our own way how to serve God and even making believe that we could clean our mess in our life and all those sins thru visiting churches and reading bibles. all these thoughts are being connected  in  so called “LOVE” it revolves without an axis in our everyday life,  it cycles over and over even without any existence of human relationship. Love is simple word and easy to spell, but hard to define and make people cry. Love is understanding, sacrificing, givi­ng, sharing, accepting and letting go. Love is blind and there's no wrong or right. Love is placed in our laps and we need to get over ourselves enough to make it work. Compromise, tolerance, and understanding are thought to be unnecessary simply because love exist and posses so strongly. Love is too often seen only as a noun and not a verb and thus lost. Ego's, pride, and fear will eat away even the most intense and passionate love. Love alone is never enough. I guess everyone are aware what does LOVE mean. There are different story and so much to tell about it. All of these idea are also being connected to what I am trying to impose as most people called them THIRD Sex or homosexual. About 50 percent in all social networking sites are homo. Are these really against religions? How bout in schools? In society? Or its just state of mind, contradicting our beliefs and traditions. Perhaps violating some sort of customs. Have you ever asked your self if this particular issue would really affect  our economy? Are you openminded enough to understand the real value being homo.
        Lets talk about religion. Most people says that having same sex relationship are against religion and as the bible says love was only capable between two people and that is man and a woman. But why is’t they are keep on sayin spread love to everyone if its against to them. They always taught other people how to build strong relationship between people and god. And people to people. Would it be acceptable enough to them to throw  a very common explanation that “were just human being, were not perfect” that is basically one of their thoughts why we commit mistakes often. And even if they consider it as a wrong doing  and an immoral connotation, still two people cannot avoid the love that burst on each other. And if it consider as a sin well I guess, church are open every Sunday to lessen this sins that they called FORBIDDEN LOVE. Now, how bout the stands of our society? How true that its been officially accepted nowadays same sex in our society? I haven’t heard and known any legal laws allowing this kind of relationship. But Is it really that bad having same sex relationship or being conservative that makes them believe unacceptable. Perhaps state of mind again  that people having hard time to adjust and understand the real value of this kind of relationship.

       I read a lot of comment in my wall about my post regarding homosexuality and how hard looking for some one who really love you not because for any physical lust but for having interest to your real character itself. Social networking thru internet is one of the most common way to interact others as well as getting connected to everyone. Most of comments I received are pretty well explained. Bet they are one of those person who are open minded. we must admit, 90 percent of fb users that belong to homosexual are into sex. I bet im not the only person who received message everyday tellin, your hot, your sexy, your yummy, ang sarap, malaki ba yan, sex tayo, magkano kaba? Babayaran kita ng 1500, 2000, 2500. May place kaba? Anu number mo? Pd ba kita tawagan? Ilang taon kana? Meet tayo pag uwi ko sa pinas, sana matikman kita, sana mahawakan kita, sana mayakap kita. Pd ba kita maging karelasyon kahit sa fb lang? im not bragging all these kind of statement, imjust pointing sort of ideas how people bein crazy if they saw half naked picture of a guy. And how will you know that these people are just being interested into sex? Its when they don’t exert effort to know you more even browsing your profile for a reference who you are, where and how old are you. FB wouldnt put such thing like PROFILE INFO without any reasob at all, it has purpose that’s why. And if you gonna ask my NASL? Ill bluntly response ‘YOUR NOT IN YAHOO MESSENGER, THERES A BUTTON THERE SAYS PROFILE INFO WHERE YOU CAN READ MY BIO” and don’t be so affected, or even mad coz your acting like moron. You know somehow that there is an existing that kind of stuffs, and you know how to operate pc,laptop or whatever gadget you are using. Heres one of my example that people always askin typical annoying question.

1.  
 "taga-saan ka?" - taga-Manila Planetarium ako (magbasa sana ng profile di ba? hindi bawal magbasa)

2.
 "ilang taon ka na?" - 102 years old na ako (again, tingin uli sa profile. kapag di makita ang edad, meaning ayaw ko i-reveal di ba?)

3. 
"anu gawa mo?" - nagpa-plano kung paano sasakupin ang sanlibutan (obvious ba kung anu ginagawa ko?)

4. 
"pwede ko ba makuha ang number mo?" - bat mo kukunin ang number ko, wala ka bang sariling number? (
5. 
"masarap ka ba?" - di ko alam. di ko naman dinidilaan ang sarili ko para tikman kung masarap nga o hindi. (hindi po ako pagkain para maging masarap)
6. 
"eow phoe, mhustah kha poeh?" - 30p 30Hm 4n9n4t (di ako naku-kyutan sa jejemon)
7. 
"suplado/sungit mo naman" - hindi ako suplado at hindi po ako masungit. di lang ako nakikipag-usap sa taong walang masabing matino


There are really few of them that longing for a long relationship. Its up to you how you gonna find out if he’s true or not.  Most of the time a person who got broke up from previous relationship are one of them who really need someone, and those person who are “CHOOSY” I bet they will keep on choosing for the rest of their life. And those person who remain single for almost 2 to 3 years, those are pretty much connected to choosy people and bitter person who cannot move on. Hahaha J!

WELL WHAT CAN I SAY, IF MOST OF THE COMMENTS ARE TELLIN ME THAT THERE IS STILL WHO ARE NOT INTO SEX, ILL MAKE BELIEVE MYSELF THEN. Yan lang raction ko about sa post ko! Ditto ko na nilagay kasi sobrang haba! Hehehe love you guys! 

2 comments:

Federico Deo Escarcha said...

OK LANG YAN, DI KA DIN DAPAT PAAPEKTO SA MGA COMMENTS. BASTA ENJOY AKO AT IBA PA SA IYONG MGA BLOGS AYOS NA JEJEJE BILIB NGA AKO SAU EH, GALING NG IMAGINATION U PARANG AKO HAHAHA.

Dinn Arken said...

HAHAHAHA FEDERICO SALAMAT SA IYON KOMENTO AMIGO! ANU NAMANG IMAHENASYON ANG TINUTUKOY MO KAIBIGAN?? HAHAHAHA THANK YOU AT MAY MGA TAONG NAKAKA APRECIATE NG INSIGHTS KO! MMMMMM THANKS A LOT!